Gay Weddings

Our remarkable venues provide the ideal setting for you to make the commitment to each other and will make your party an event to remember. Celebrate in a historic mansion, a private country club, or an incredible waterfront property, all with exceptional cuisine.

With over 125 years of experience, Lessing's can make your dream wedding come true.

Upcoming Events

New Venues

A legacy of remarkable hospitality comes with experience. The Lessing's Weddings division has grown exponentially since we first got started and continues to do so. We are proud to share with you some of our newest venues. With our expert culinary teams and award-winning chefs, we're sure to deliver the most memorable of events.


Heritage Club at Bethpage
Farmingdale, New York
Pelican Club
Jupiter, Florida
The Mansion at Oyster Bay
Woodbury, New York
The Vineyards at Aquebogue
Aquebogue, New York


Imagine your fairytale dreams come true. The possibilities are endless with a timeless setting.


Chateau at Coindre Hall
Huntington, New York
Whitby Castle
Rye, New York

Country Clubs

Picturesque gardens, endless charm and fine cuisine, all complete with exceptional service. Each of our country clubs is unique in its own way and will go above and beyond all your expectations.


Brentwood Country Club
Brentwood, New York
Smithtown Landing
Smithtown, New York
Stonebridge Country Club
Smithtown, New York

Mansions & Estates

Classic and timeless. Our mansions and estates offer a breathtaking and intimate backdrop, all with outstanding cuisine, that will leave a lasting impression.

Bourne Mansion
Oakdale, New York
Estate at Three Village Inn
Stony Brook, New York
Mansion at Timber Point
Great River, New York
The Mansion at West Sayville
West Sayville, New York


Exchange your vows by the sea and celebrate with family and friends while soaking in panoramic water views. It's like a destination dream without the travel.


Montauk Manor
Montauk, New York
Pavilion at Sunken Meadow
Kings Park, New York
Weddings at View
Oakdale, New York